This past week Shari and I both spent time away from our home states! We enjoyed reading responses from you in regards to the latest newsletter and spent much of the week enjoying friends and family. We missed you and we are back and chatty as ever!
Pure Natural v. Classic Modern
Last week I was on Pelican Lake in Northern Wisconsin with my husband’s family. It was a boating, fishing, playing with doggies type of relaxing week. My clothing choices were mostly fashion no-no’s according to Shari’s teachings. Showing bra/swimsuit straps, wearing skirts that just cover bathing suit bottoms, and oh the color combinations!
I have been sun tan sprayed, bug sprayed and wet dog sprayed. It was a relaxing, refreshing, and fun week. My wardrobe was mainly easy to wear outfits made of tank tops, shorts and flip flops, bare feet or tennis shoes. There were no accessories except my wedding rings and sunglasses, pretty sure the baseball cap doesn’t quite count. It was a VERY casual week.
So does this mean I’m a “Pure Natural” for my vacation week? Short answer. No.
To call myself a Pure Natural would be unfair to the Pure Natural gals. I am simply not trying. The word “Casual” has so many meanings that I have to be careful not to include my barefoot, “scruffy” look with a fashion style personality where women try SO hard to look stylish in their comfy, un-accessorized look.
Long answer: I had just left my “Classic Modern” style at home, over 10 hours away. I was simply wearing the most casual parts of my wardrobe. I think that a Style Fashionista and Creative Original would be wearing much of the same attire. It’s vacation time!
Even my regular work attire is relatively casual. My weekly work outfit is typically a pair of Dickies pants and a cute button up collared shirt. It makes my job easier as an engineer who has gotten dirty more than once or twice at work. I try to wear cute necklaces that won’t get in the way. These business casual outfits are what I wear most of the time, but it is simply because it is what is most practical for my field of work. My work “uniform” isn’t reflective of my fashion style much like scrubs wouldn’t be representative of many medical professionals fashion style.
My make up and hair options started very minimally too. I grew up with a mom who didn’t wear makeup, she grew up with 5 brothers and her own mom didn’t wear much makeup either. I wore hand me down clothes from my older girl cousin and my older boy cousins. I went to engineering college with 85% guys and where t-shirt and jeans were the most common part of my wardrobe.
So after all of this how do I know that I’m a “Classic Modern” instead of a “Pure Natural”? Well I don’t have problems wearing skirts… as long as I can still run around (aka not be 100% ladylike). I like wearing jewelry that matches my style and my budget. My work tops are very classic cuts and so are my “trendy” pieces… the pieces I choose keep to the most classic silhouettes with stylish color choices. I even like wearing heels, they just have to have a thicker heel and be comfortable for more than 5 seconds. I am a Classic Modern with a practical perspective.
Does that mean I still get L-A-Z-Y? Like jumping into my PJ’s after a long day? Or wearing mis-matched outfits until the laundry is done? Or wearing 5 layers of warm sweats and blankets when winter comes? Or wearing short shorts and tanks when it is hotter than blazes around my house? Does it mean I pull out the baseball cap to run errands along with those old t-shirts and jeans?
I don't lose my "Classic Modern" personality when I'm having a "casual" day.
Pure Naturals are ladies who are most comfortable being casual and where dressing up is SO hard for them. It makes them feel SO out of place to think about heels, jewelry or makeup not because they didn’t grow up with it, like me, but because it is simply not their style.
I am a "Classic Modern” who likes to combine comfort with style.
So are you really a “Classic Modern” or a “Pure Natural”?
Ladies – what are your favorite “guilty pleasures” that don’t officially match your Fashion Personality?
I hope you have a blessed week!
P.S. Next time I take a picture I will make sure to wave to you!
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